Is there a cure?
In many cases, a relationship starts from love, but over time you may no longer feel that original love, or not as often. For example, doubts or problems with sexuality arise. Perhaps you still have a smoothly running Family & Co organization, but without real contact and emotional connection. This has a major impact on your life, your partner’s life, and also your children’s lives.
You are not alone
It’s a poor consolation, but you are not an exception: practice and research show (unfortunately) that most relationships are in a painful state. Nearly 40% of marriages end in divorce. And you may wonder about the quality of the relationship within the marriages that ‘hold on’ despite everything… So it’s not surprising if you no longer feel comfortable in your relationship and need help with it.
How to find each other (again) and never lose each other (again)
A return to your love from the early days; longing for each other, interest in each other’s activities, desire for sex, truly Living together. It seems like a utopia, but you can find the love of yesteryear relatively easily. The most important key to this is your emotional connection: trust in each other, sharing your feelings, and awareness of your emotional blockages. Working on this together (and it’s not even that difficult) also has a direct positive impact on your sexual relationship. The only condition is that you are both willing to do the work.
Ingeborg Bosch describes in detail how you can tackle this together in her book Onze Liefde hoe elkaar (terug) te vinden en nooit (meer) kwijt te raken [Our Love: How to Find Each Other (Again) and Never Lose Each Other (Again)].
PRI and love
PRI helps you to increase awareness of your emotional blockages within yourself. The blockages that prevent you from making contact with yourself and with the one you love. It shows you how you look at your partner through the lens of your earliest experiences as a child, so you don’t really see him or her for who he or she is. The same thing happens with your partner towards you. You will see how this damages your relationship. If you become aware of how you distort your image of the other person, you can find each other again in the love with which it began and which in many cases still appears to be there.
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